"I am a young career woman. I have been frequenting bars for a number of years failing to meet anyone worth looking twice at. I recently met a really handsome gentlemen that is 20 years my senior. He exudes personality, charm and style. I was drawn to him for his athletic abilities, humour, personality not to mention his lean physique. he challenges me daily and that excites me. He recently separated from his wife (four teenage children). We recently moved in together and started a deep meaningful relationship. We have an extremely heathy sex life. To my shock, I just discovered that I am pregnant. I believe this will have a major impact on our relationship as I know that he does not wish for any more children. I am having thoughts about having an abortion. I am also struggling with how this will affect me as a liberal minded Catholic. I know that if I tell him he will think that I am irresponsible and selfish and that it will ruin our plans for the future. I don't know which way to turn. For now I will keep this news close to my heart. I can't even tell my family or friends as I fear that the news will leak to him. I can't bear to face this monumental decision at this time. "